This is a delicate question and one that has no right or wrong answer. Honestly, virgin (first time) sex and the experience - how good or how painful - will depend on your lover. It's far less painful if you are having sex at the right time in your life. By this I mean that you are truly in love with your partner and all the care, gentleness and passion is present leading up to the moment of vaginal penetration.
There has to be careful preparation made for your first sexual experience that's best left in the hands of someone who really cares about you and is willing to spend the time to work up to the moment. If you are not in a serious relationship with someone that you love and that loves you passionately, I would say put it off until you are in that situation.
This should be a memorable, remarkable experience and one that you can look back on with fondness in your later years. Please don't just have sex to be cool or to be part of some senseless teenage sex statistic. Do this in your own time, when you are ready and with someone who cares for you deeply.
This will ensure that you have a wonderful, relatively pain-free experience. This is written to be as candid as it could be on what is indeed a family-oriented website.
My only other recommendation would be to check your local library or bookstore for books on "sex for virgins" or "virgin sex" to gain more knowledge of what to expect.
Try to learn more about your body, lingerie and what to expect before you take the plunge into sexual intercourse. |
